(Last Updated On: March 18, 2017)

The concept of feminism first began in some part of the 19th century. The core idea of feminism was equal rights for men and women. Feminism is pro women but at the same time it does not imply that it is anti men. As it is a social concept it is difficult to detach it from the society or its problems. Hence, to understand, propagate and achieve feminism in its true sense, the seeds have to be sown within the confines and the boundaries of the society. And what better place to begin than our homes.

It is said that teaching always begins at home. What we see in our homes is a very important contributor of how we turn out as humans when we grow up.From what has been going on for ages, from our perception of men and women, from our own experiences; we set stereotypes for men and women. And either knowingly or unknowingly we try to settled our children in those stereotypes. But if we make little changes in our own actions and what we teach our children; the concept of feminism would become more clear in the correct sense to the generations ahead.

In a typical household where a woman is supposed to look after the house and the kids irrespective whether she is a career woman or not and the man’s job is just to earn money to provide for family needs- feminism cannot be taught.

If in a household there is equality in terms of respect , distribution of work, freedom between men and women ; the present and the coming generation will not require the flag of feminism. They will get it naturally.

There are numerous ways in which we can teach our younger generation gender equality at home itself.

We always tell our sons to take care of our daughters. This way we ourselves establish that women are weaker than men. Instead why not tell the kids to take care of each other. This makes but boys and girls as equals.

Instead of putting your daughters into numerous drawing/singing /dancing classes and your boys into sports classes ; why not choose a sports class for girls also. When they realise the strength they posses they themselves will feel confident. And when boys see girls playing alongside, gradually they will also start realising that after all girls are not weak.

Make similar rules for girls and boys. Why should girls not be allowed to stay out of the house till late in the night or have night outs or parties.Of course majority of the parents do discrimination in this department because they are worried about the safety of their girls. The rather practical approach would be similar decent time limits for both boys and girls alike.

In many families the girls are groomed to do the household work, are made to learn cooking. Teach these things to boys as well. These things are required by everybody. When our boys move out of the house for studies or job they do these things as a requirement. But once they get married and settle they think it’s the duty of the woman of the house to do the household chores. It just becomes a loop and nothing else.If we make both our boys and girls do all these chores the boys will not feel its a job exclusively for girls.

Don’t stop your girls from wearing the clothes of their choice. Instead teach your boys to respect every women. Also teach your kids to dress as per the occasion. It applies equally for both boys and girls. This will make them aware of their environment and the limits it has.

These are just a few steps that every common person can take to clarify and promote the idea of feminism in the day today life.

There is an ardent need to re-iterate time and again that In order to preach the idea of feminism we first need to practice it ourselves.

Feminism as a concept challenges the foundation of certain beliefs that were laid centuries ago. And hence it will take time to perforate them. Under such circumstances a gradual and persistent process is always effective than any drastic measures. The harder we try to hit the pillars of such staunch believes the more opposition we face. But a subtle approach is usually considered harmless and might even be heard and understood.

boundlessblessingsblog · March 10, 2017 at 6:43 am

Great and such wonderful and inspiring words Prajakta and so agree with your post.

    Prajakta · March 10, 2017 at 9:28 am

    Thank you so much for your encouraging words ☺
    Well I strongly feel that every important lesson begins at home and hence wrote this post 😊

Pradita Kapahi · March 10, 2017 at 12:33 pm

Great article on how its our mindset that decides what a gender should and should not do. Well written 🙂

    Prajakta · March 11, 2017 at 12:14 pm

    Thank you so much for reading the post and giving your valuable feedback ☺

Alok Singhal · March 10, 2017 at 1:41 pm

Yes, the way you grow your kids has an important bearing on how they would treat each other (and even others around).

If a male is taught right from the beginning, he might be at least better than he would have been otherwise!

    Prajakta · March 11, 2017 at 12:14 pm

    Thank you for your valuable feedback ☺

dilkiaawazsunoblog · March 11, 2017 at 12:49 pm

I so much do agree with you Prajakta.. We at home should be responsible to teach our little boys and girls about respecting each other and caring for each other.. how important it is for a boy to help the lady in house similarly for a girl to respect the hardwork that a man puts in to run the home..

    Prajakta · March 15, 2017 at 7:44 am

    True and if we teach this at home then children would learn to appreciate other members of the opposite gender in a better manner

Idle Muser · March 15, 2017 at 6:05 am

This article has hit the bull’s eye, Prajakta. To understand how changes at home can bring huge changes in the outside world is the need of the hour. And your depiction of the same is undeniably to the point. We cannot control other’s home, other’s point of views, but why not do what we can, what is in our control.
Again, an amazing job. 🙂
I am also on my way of preparing a post on the same topic; will publish it soon.

    Prajakta · March 15, 2017 at 7:41 am

    I am glad you liked my post. Looking forward to reading yours ☺
    When talking of feminism people talk of very big big things but I strongly feel that if we cannot make changes in ourselves and our families first; how can we bring about such huge changes in the society

Prianka · March 19, 2017 at 8:54 pm

Well said Prajakta. You are so right in saying that it is very important to practice what we are preaching.
Loved reading this entry. Great work 👍🏻

    Prajakta · March 19, 2017 at 11:19 pm

    Thank you so much Prianka. I am happy that you read my posts 😘😘

Sweta Ojha · March 20, 2017 at 7:23 am

I find power and inspiration in your words! Very well said. 😊

    Prajakta · March 20, 2017 at 9:46 pm

    Thank you so much Sweta. Your comments are always very encouraging 🙂

      Sweta Ojha · March 21, 2017 at 2:17 pm

      And so are your words! Never let them fall short. 😊

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